Thursday, April 12, 2012
Ciao!
Saturday, March 31, 2012
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Destination Denver (aka deep thoughts by Steve)
As I write this, I am reminded of one of my favorite bible verses - Philippians 4:13 - "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me". This will be my motto, my plea, and my cry over the next thirty hours and I will probably say it in my head over a thousand times on our journey home.
I also know that once we are home, this process will seem like a distant memory but we are very thankful and humbled by our time here. The country, people, and culture have been more amazing and kinder than we could have ever imagined. We are not sure when we will be back again but we know we will be.
And with that, we are headed home. In thirty hours this journey will be over and the next chapter that God is writing with our family will begin. Thank you all for the support and prayers during this journey. See you soon.
Love and Godspeed,
Steve, Kelly, and Cora
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Greetings from Ethiopia!
Today was our embassy appointment and it was a little like going to the DMV. After clearing security, we waited in a long row of chairs and waited to be called to a window. We were asked a couple of questions and were told her visa would be ready tomorrow at four (it is supposed to take 48 hours to process but the embassy guy did not seemed concerned that our return flight was a day earlier than it was supposed to be).
That all being said and God willing, tomorrow night at 11pm Ethiopian time (2pm Denver time), we will be getting on a plane and after stops in Sudan(first time visiting), changing planes in Frankfurt, getting on another plane to Chicago, clearing immigration, and then getting on another plane to Denver, we will be home! It will take a little over 24 hours and both layovers in Frankfurt and Chicago are very short (which in typical situations is a good thing) but we are trusting in God that all will go smoothly and our journey to bring our daughter home will be complete. Please pray for safe and smooth travels for us and that God's peace and warmth surround us as well. Also please pray for the lucky people who will get to sit next to us on our flights too!
Godspeed,
Steve (my first ever blog post!)
Sunday, March 25, 2012
She's Ours!
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Best Email EVER!
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
The Longest Week.
12 weeks after she became our daughter in court we will hopefully be holding her again. It has been a LOOOOOOOOOOOONG 12 weeks, to say the least. I've only seen a couple pics of her since we left and I just can't imagine how much she's grown and changed during that time. The selfish mommy in me prays she isn't walking quite yet...and I may have even told some traveling families to push her down if they see her trying. ;)
So...please pray for her mother's long travel to Addis, that she would make it to the appointment on time, that the embassy would be satisfied with her answers and issue us clearance that morning, that we would be able to find a reasonably priced flight, and that the trip back would go smoothly! Thank all of you for the support and prayers!
Monday, March 12, 2012
A rose by any other name....
Right now, this is our daughter's legal name. It's what is on her birth certificate, passport, and every other legal document we've received since passing court. Ethiopians don't generally have last names...they have their birth name, then their father's first name as their second name. Hence, Mekdes Steven! As beautiful as that sounds, we decided to nix the Steven...
What to name her has been a hot topic the last few months. (It may or may not have been the first time marriage counseling was ever brought up in our house!) I am happy to report that we have finally settled on a name, no counseling necessary. ;)
Introducing Cora Mekdes B...!
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
One Giant Leap Forward
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Ethiopia - Day 9
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Ethiopia - Day 8
After leaving the school, one of the couples we were with wanted to buy a goat for their care center. A little background info here... In Ethiopia Christians fast meat and dairy for 30 days prior to Christmas. Basically a vegan diet. So, the night before Christmas (today) they all buy a goat or sheep to slaughter on Christmas morning and break the fast. So, we pulled over to one of the many herds of goats on the side of the road, he got out and negotiated a price, they tied up the goats legs, tossed him on the top of the van and off we went. I'm not going to lie...it bothered me. The poor thing was banging away on the top of the van and all I could think about was how to secretly set him free once we got to the care center! I know it's the way of life there, and I definitely eat more than my far share of meat...but somehow it's a lot easier when it's headless, furless and wrapped neatly in plastic in the grocery store.
Once the goat was delivered we went out to dinner with the group to MK's. Definitely the best pizza we had in Addis...wood fire oven! It's on Bole in the Edna shopping area, across from the Grand Guesthouse. A couple locals told us the Greek restaurant next door is amazing as well, but we never got a chance to try it.
Monday, January 9, 2012
Ethiopia - Day 7
For lunch we ate at Makush (on Bole above Ethio Supermarket). It's Italian and the food was decent (the spaghetti with veggies looked great, my Gorgonzola sauce was just okay). The food isn't the real draw of this place though...it is also an art gallery. All of the best Ethiopian artists hang their art all throughout the restaurant. Some amazing stuff...unfortunately our budget wasn't big enough to buy any of it!
After lunch we headed to Churchill (at post office road) for some shopping. We tried our hand at haggling (not sure how successful we were, but I'm going to pretend we got good deals) and got a couple traditional dresses for baby girl, a ball and drum for the boys, and a framed cross and stone nativity set for ourselves. Then we went to Tomoca and bought a ton (almost literally!) of fresh roasted coffee. It smells amazing! I can't wait to see if it tastes as good as it did there... Our final stop was a jewelry store to get a silver Ethiopian cross necklace to give baby girl when she gets older.
For dinner we went to Habesha 2000 for some Ethiopian food and a show of traditional dancing. It was fun to see! Most of the dancing looks like some kind of chicken dance with lots of shoulder movement...pretty entertaining stuff. The food was a buffet...was good, but we had no idea what anything was! (We did see others ordering from the menu later, that's probably a better option.) Steve tried the tej (honey wine), served in a glass bulb. Too sour for me, but he liked it. I don't think you need a reservation, but when we told our driver that's where we wanted to go, he called and made one for us. Show starts warming up at 7:30ish every night, so arrive about that time. Definitely a must do!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Ethiopia - Day 6
We had made arrangements to go to the care center in the afternoon that day, so we thought we'd go to the national museum in the mean time. Now would be a good time to talk about one of the most frustrating, annoying and expensive aspects of our trip. We need to hire a driver to go absolutely anywhere...to dinner, to the store, to the coffee shop, to the museum...everywhere. There is absolutely nothing within walking distance of our hotel (which is really my only complaint about our hotel). Everything we do has to be planned in advance...the driver meets us at our hotel, takes us where we need to go, waits for us, then takes us back. The drivers are wonderful, there's 2 private ones we've been using as well as the hotel drivers and they all speak English and have taught us a ton about the city...it's just a pain to coordinate constantly. Anyway, our trip to the museum was a last minute decision so we opted just to use the hotel drivers. 30 minutes later we were still waiting for a driver and by then decided we no longer had time to go...grrr. Being a creationist, not getting to see Lucy's remains isn't a big deal...it's the feeling if being trapped in our hotel that bugged me.
Anyway, we visited our little cutie in the afternoon. I think it was the first time we drove there and I didn't feel the least bit car sick! Maybe I'm getting used to the driving here? (Picture New York City with no traffic lights, no stop signs, no side walks, just as many cars and people, and add in a bunch of sheep, dogs and bulls.)
We had a great dinner at Sangam...Ethiopia has good Indian!
Ethiopia - Day 5
The city itself is very quaint with cobblestone roads and thatched roof huts. When tourism began about 10 years ago many hotels and souvenir tin stands popped up all along the road as well. Definitely detracts from the ambiance...but the town itself is not why people come to Lalibela.
Lalibela is considered the Jerusalem of Ethiopia. It is said that in the 12th or 13th century, King Lalibela was poisoned by his brother and while in heaven he was shown a city of rock-hewn churches and instructed to return to earth and build what he had seen, a new Jerusalem. There are 11 churches, each carved from a single rock from the ground down and connected by underground tunnels. Scholars say it would have taken 40,000 men to build these intricately carved buildings, while locals believe angels took over work during nights to help build these at a miraculous speed. Whatever the reality, they are something that must be seen in person to truly experience.
Since we are here during the Christmas season (Jan 7th in Ethiopia) there were thousands of Orthodox pilgrims there from all over the country. They camp out all around the grounds, attending services at the churches every morning. It was amazing to see these little old ladies - barefoot - hobbling up and down these extremely steep steps, along narrow ledges and through tiny tunnels.
In the morning we were touring some of the churches during their services, which were both inside and outside the buildings. The churches were so full we had to walk on tip toes in order not to step on any toes! It was amazing to observe and I'm so glad we were able to witness a lot of their celebrations...though I did feel a bit like an intruder. I could go on and on about the churches and all the amazing things we saw, but it really wouldn't be interesting without seeing it. So, I'll save that for those of you that are "lucky" enough to see a slide show of our trip. ;) Below is a picture of the top of Bet Giyorgis. I can only attach one picture here, so I'll do the side view in a different one.
After finishing our tour, we went to dinner at Holy Land...one of the local restaurants near our hotel and watched the gorgeous sunset.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Ethiopia - Day 4
We arrived at court at about 9:15. The court is in a completely non-discript building. I don't even recall seeing a name on it...and had it not been for the security guards out front I wouldn't have even know it was an office building. We went up the elevator and into a hallway flanked with people...and then into the adoption court waiting room. All the seats were taken, so we just stood by the window. For an agonizing 45 minutes. I only noticed 2 birth mothers there (they go to court too...before the adoptive parents) and my heart went out to them as I looked around the room at all the laughing and chattering in many different languages. The "silence please" signs were pretty ineffective.
Finally our orphanage was called and we sat in front of the judge. She is a strikingly beautiful, very young Ethiopian woman. She was in the US for training over the summer and came to our agency's annual picnic. So, I had seen her before...although I didn't dare talk to her at the picnic for fear of making a bad impression. ;) She asked us a bunch (way more than I though) of yes questions...had we met our child, did our other children know about her, do we understand that adoption is final in Ethiopia, and about 5 or 6 others. Then she finally said, "Everything is here. She is yours." Steve and I were both just stunned. Other friends have been passing the first time recently, so we were optimistic...but to actually hear those words was an amazing feeling!
When we got outside the building Tesfa, the agency rep that came with us, asked if we had requested a birth parent meeting. I said yes, but that on the first day here another rep had told us it wouldn't happen until we came back for Embassy. "She is waiting at the care center now for you." I think I asked her to repeat herself like 3 times just to make sure I heard her right! Tesfa is this tiny, 80 lb. thing and extremely soft spoken. (Seriously, I sound like a drunken Scotsman next to her!) Apparently another birth mom came down for court and they were able to make the 2 day journey together. It was a very, very quiet drive to the care center...both of us too anxious to talk. We pulled in and there she was sitting in a chair in the shade, waiting for us. The interpreter came over and just like that it began. The one time we'd ever have to learn whatever we could about our daughter's birth family...no pressure! We all had tears in our eyes, but somehow managed to get through the questions we could think of at the time. (I, of course, have a bazillion more now...) We gave her the photo book filled with all the pictures we have of Mekdes as well as some of our family. She flipped through it with the interpreter, touching each picture. In the back I had put one loose photo that I'd gotten after the book was printed, she took it out and just held it to her heart. It was obvious how much she loved her and what a tough choice this was. We took some pictures of all of us...and were a little surprised when she took out her cell phone and asked to take some as well. (Everyone has a cell phone in Ethiopia!) After that we went to the office to give her some time alone with Mekdes...then we said goodbye with hugs and tears. I'm not sure if Ethiopians hug much...but it just seemed appropriate. Our little girl will always know about the wonderful woman that gave birth to her...
Ethiopia - Day 3 (cont.)
Pressed send too soon last post! For dinner that night we went to a place called Family Restaurant that our driver touted as the best food in Addis. Well, I wouldn't go that far, but it wasn't bad. It was quite possibly the best hot chocolate I've ever had in my life though, so I may go back just for that reason! The food portions were huge and we both only ate about half our meal. When the server came to take our plates he was very distressed that we hadn't eaten enough and brought the menu back so we could chose a different meal. We insisted we liked them, we were just full...but he was clearly upset. I asked for a take out box and we ordered an ice cream sundae (which was delish!) just to make him feel better! (If you go there order a burger, that's what everyone else seemed to be ordering...)
Monday, January 2, 2012
Ethiopia - Day 3
Our driver was awesome though...very informative and honest, easy to talk to. Funny story though, he put on what I'm quite sure is his "American customers" soundtrack...which consisted of lots of Beyonce and then some of the worst rap songs I've ever heard in my life. Steve finally asked him if he liked that music and convinced him just to play whatever Amharic music he would normally listen to if we weren't there...which was much better!
Our first stop offered some breathtaking views of the Blue Nile Gorge. Think the Grand Canyon in the middle of some remote village...it was truly amazing to see. Ahhh...soooo wish I could figure out how to post pics...though I'm not sure my pictures even do it justice. We hiked down a little ways to get better views and came back up through a bee farm (bunch of yellow boxes) and came upon a huge herd(?) of baboons! There were probably about 50 of them and tons of teeny, tiny little babies. I was assured they were scared of us and it was fine to get a little closer for a better picture...but did take note that Steve, our driver, and the 2 boys that were guiding us all stayed much further back! I could have stayed and watched them all day, but it was time to move on...
Next we went to Debre Libanos monastery, one of the largest and most important in Ethiopia. The founding priest lived in a cave in the surrounding cliff and was said to have stood and prayed for 20 years straight when his right leg rotted and fell off. He's always shown with just one leg. There are some special services going on during this Christmas week and people came from all over the country and are just camped out on the grounds. There was also a funeral going on while we were there...definitely nothing like any funeral I've been to back home! The coffin is carried in and set down and all the mourners surrounded it jumping and chanting/moaning and dancing. It was really amazing to witness. I wanted to take pics, but didn't want to become that totally disrespectful tourist-type. (though I did get reprimanded for almost taking pics in the museum...guess I missed the monk telling us that was a no-no during the tour!)
Our final stop was a little restaurant with more amazing views of the gorge...and another visit from our baboon friends! Then it was back to Addis...though I can't tell you much about the drive because I think we both slept the whole way home!
It was an amazing trip...highly recommend it! If any of you future travelers have a spare day and want our driver's info just let me know!
Ethiopia - Day 2
Anyway, after breakfast we headed over to the care center. It was Saturday so all the kids were there (the older kids...4 and up I think...go to school during the week. I knew it would be crazy, but I think I underestimated just HOW crazy. We thought we'd be able to play soccer or games with the kids, but every time we took a ball out of our backpack one kid would grab it and refuse to let go. Even bubbles...no one wanted to chase the bubbles, they all just wanted to be the one to get the bubble jar. So, we utterly failed with the older kids! In our defense though, we are the only family here from our agency right now and we had a baby in our arms too. They're all amazing kids though and when we got to spend time with some of them in smaller groups you could just see their personality come shining through... I think it would have been a lot easier if there was at least one other family to help appease the masses. Next Saturday we'll get to test out that theory. ;)
Did I mention the nanny knew we were coming and did M's hair all fancy? It was so cute, parted to the side and all flattened down. Anyway, after we had to say goodbye we had our favorite hotel driver, Benyam, take us to lunch at Top View. As the name implies it has a great view over the city, and some fabulous pasta dishes! (A remnant of Italy's attempt to take over Ethiopia is LOTS of great Italian restaurants.) Then it was back to the hotel to rest.
For dinner we went to another Italian place called Rico's. The pizza was okay, but we were both wishing we had ordered one of the entrees instead. Ethiopia celebrates New Years in September (haven't quite figured that one out yet), but a couple of the American hotels were having New Year's parties and fireworks. Our agency reel invited us to go to one, but honestly, the thought of trying to keep our eye lids open past 9:00 seemed an impossible task. So, we decided we'd just ring the New Year in mountain time...at 10AM the next day. ;). Had we known neither of us would sleep longer than 4 hours that night anyway we may have just gone to the party!